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Self-help tips

Sleeping problems

Good sleep is essential for mental health. These sleep hygiene tips, based on cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-i) and Dutch guidelines, can help improve your sleep while waiting for treatment.

Types of sleep problems
  • Difficulty falling asleep – lying awake for more than 30 minutes
  • Waking up during the night – and having trouble falling back asleep
  • Waking up too early – and not being able to sleep again
  • Not feeling rested – even after enough hours of sleep

Sleep hygiene basics

Fixed sleep schedule

Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day—including weekends. This is the single most important thing for your biological clock. Yes, even if you slept badly.

Light exposure

Get bright light (preferably daylight) early in the morning. This helps set your circadian rhythm. In the evening, dim the lights to signal to your body that it's time to wind down.

No screens before bed

Stop using phones, tablets, and computers at least 1 hour before bed. The blue light suppresses melatonin (your sleep hormone), and the stimulation keeps your brain active. Read a book instead.

Watch caffeine and nicotine

No caffeine after 2 PM (or earlier if you're sensitive). Caffeine stays in your system for 6-8 hours. Nicotine is also a stimulant—try not to smoke in the evening.

Bed = sleep only

Use your bed only for sleep and intimacy. Don't study, work, watch TV, or scroll on your phone in bed. Your brain needs to associate the bed with sleep, not with being awake.

If you can't fall asleep

Don't lie in bed awake for more than 15-20 minutes. Instead:

  • Get up and go to another room
  • Do something calm (read, listen to soft music) in dim light
  • Only go back to bed when you feel sleepy again
  • Still wake up at your usual time in the morning

This "stimulus control" technique helps break the association between bed and wakefulness.

Things to avoid
  • Don't nap after 3 PM, and keep naps under 30 minutes
  • Avoid alcohol before bed—it disrupts sleep quality
  • Don't exercise intensely within 2-3 hours of bedtime
  • Don't watch the clock—turn it away from you
  • Don't eat heavy meals late in the evening

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